Sex Seriously: To understand the desire of the woman, it is necessary to understand the difference between foreplay and after play while making a physical relationship.

There is a huge difference in the thinking of men and women about sex. The behavior of both is also different, but sometimes due to this, there is a debate, tension and rift between the two. Both husband and wife should talk about what they think, how they feel about their physical relationship, otherwise misunderstandings may start. Sexologist Dr. Rajan Bhosale is telling about the approach of men and women in sex.

After sex, when my husband sleeps on his side, I feel very bad. It feels like he has used my body to fulfill his wish. Why do I have such thoughts about my husband?

It is very normal to have such thoughts in your mind. Like you, most women complain that husbands do not pay attention to them after sex, due to which they feel very bad. They think that husbands only care about their sexual satisfaction. Actually, it is not the fault of men in this. Men and women feel sex differently. For men, physical participation in sex is more important, whereas for women, it is a relationship related to the mind. A man can have sex of his own free will without love, but until the woman does not want a man with her heart, she will not be ready for sex. Men see sex by connecting with the body, but mental connection is more important for women, that is why women need foreplay before sex and after play after sex.

Your question is also related to this. You want after play after sex and husband does not understand your need. For this you have to talk to your husband. They have to be explained that just as foreplay is done before sex, in the same way after play is also necessary. Before sex, when husband and wife do foreplay, touch each other's body parts, kiss, then it increases excitement in them and they enjoy physical relationship. Similarly, after sex, the desire of the woman is that the husband should stay with her for some time, touch her, love her. By doing this the woman gets satisfaction. Many men love their wife very much, but do not understand her physical needs, due to which the wife blames them without fault. What are the desires and needs of women regarding sex, they must talk to the husband about it. With this husband will be able to understand your mind and your sex life will become more healthy.